Jenny is a girl who loves many things. She loves street foods, traveling, nature, mentally dating benedict cumberbatch, cats, and dogs! Now, I have to spill a secret.
I have had crushes on my professors back in my college days. And, when I say “older,” I mean guys who are 10-15 years older than I am and not the “old” retired type. Some people tell me that I may just be looking for a father-figure, but I am not. There are a lot of good reasons why some women like me prefer older men, and I am going to enumerate some of them here. Reasons Why Women Date Older Men They are more experienced and cultured.
They are better at pleasing women. They are looking for more serious relationships. They have a more sophisticated taste. They do not go out and party as often as younger men. Why Is It Called a May—December Romance?
The use of the term May—December romance to describe a younger woman dating an older man comes from European culture. The phrase makes use of metaphors of the seasons, with May representing springtime when a woman is her youthful best and December representing the start of winter when the man is past his prime. Why Women Find Older Men More Desirable 1. More Experienced and Cultured Men are like wine: they get better with age. Their experiences in life, at work, and in previous relationships have taught them a lot of life lessons to make their situation better than before. They know what they want and they go for it.
They are very confident and so they carry themselves very well, especially in public. They have been to several places in the past and so they know a lot of things about other cultures. When you start a family, for example, it is important that the man is able to provide security. A self-sufficient woman will not easily settle for anyone who doesn’t earn at all. Now, from a logical perspective, a typical guy in his late 20s will have fewer savings, less wealth, and fewer assets accumulated compared to what he’ll become 20 years later.
That is considering that he continued to work and save as he gets older. In this regard, an older man has enough assets and money in the bank to support a family. I am not saying that women should depend on their partner financially, no. In fact, I admire women who stand up for themselves and accomplish a lot of things on their own. But, some societies consider it ideal for women to stay at home and take care of the kids and for the husband to work to support the family.
Older Men May Be Better in Terms of Pleasing and Treating Women In my opinion, older men have had their fair share of both short-lived and more stable relationships, and this gives them a bit of an advantage when it comes to handling relationships. Their previous experiences have helped them learn what women generally want and what makes women happy. Not only do they know more in bed, but they also understand women a little bit better. They are also more sensitive to their partner’s needs. Older men tend to be more romantic as well. They have a good sense of humor that does not involve shaming their friends or other destructive behavior.
Just think about it for a second: older men have had the time to develop and practice their skills at pleasing women. This experience makes a big difference in comparison to younger men who have not yet put in the same amount of work when it comes to treating and pleasing women. Older Men Generally Look for a Serious Relationship Men mature much later than women, and normally middle age in men is the age of maturity. This is where they seek a more stable and healthy relationship.
This is the age where they usually have pieced their life altogether, and they are now ready for a more serious and deeper commitment. Women who are tired of short-lived and immature relationships can find a more satisfying and more stable relationship with an older guy than a guy in his late 20s for example. Younger men are still at an age where they love to explore and try different things before settling on something more serious. So, if a girl feels that she is ready to tie the knot, or if she is ready for a serious commitment and ready to start a family, a younger man in his late 20’s is just not the right person for her. Older Men Have More Sophisticated Tastes When it comes to the finer things in life like wine, food, beer, traveling, and clothes, older men tend to choose the better quality ones.